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The Devastation of Duplicity

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” (Proverbs 11:3)

“If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God.” (1 Peter 4:11)

Duplicity is a poison that destroys trust, relationships, and lives. When someone intentionally deceives others, the consequences are severe. They say one thing to one person and something else to another. This often leaves broken hearts, shattered trust, and deep emotional scars.

Imagine the pain caused by a man or woman who tells multiple people they are “the only one.” This type of manipulation isn’t just a lie—it’s a betrayal of the deepest kind. Words of love become tools for control, used to extract money, intimacy, or devotion. When the truth comes to light, the damage is often irreparable, leaving victims feeling used, worthless, and hopeless. Some even spiral into depression, questioning their worth or purpose, and tragically, some consider taking their own lives.

But the harm doesn’t stop there. What about the father who has children with multiple women, all at the same time? The children grow up with fractured relationships. They compete for the attention of a parent who cannot fully commit to any one family. The women involved often feel betrayed and pitted against one another, harboring bitterness and resentment. The family unit, as God intended, is completely destroyed, replaced by chaos, pain, and sin.

This is the ultimate consequence of duplicity. It doesn’t just affect the liar. It ruins lives, sows division, and leaves scars that can take a lifetime to heal.

The Call to Integrity

As Christians, we are called to a higher standard. Our words should be life-giving, reflecting the very character of God. When we speak, we should ask ourselves, “Would God say this? Am I representing His truth, His love, and His integrity?” Anything less than truth leads us down a path of destruction.

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” (Proverbs 11:3)

Duplicity not only destroys relationships—it destroys souls. If you find yourself struggling with honesty or manipulation, know that there is hope. God’s grace is sufficient to restore even the most broken heart. Repentance and accountability can turn even the most deceitful life into a testimony of redemption.

To the Brokenhearted

You might have been a victim of duplicity. Know this: You are loved by God. Your worth is not determined by someone else’s lies. The betrayal you’ve experienced does not define you. Turn to the One who is always faithful, who will never leave or forsake you. Healing is possible, and you can rise above the pain.

A Prayer for Integrity

Lord, we come to You asking for truth to reign in our hearts and lives. Help us to speak words that reflect Your truth and to live lives of integrity. Heal the hearts of those who have been hurt by deceit, and bring restoration where there has been division. Let us walk in Your light, rejecting duplicity in all its forms. In Jesus’ name, amen.