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Psalm 40:1–3 (ESV)

“I waited patiently for the Lord; He inclined to me and heard my cry.
He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog,
and set my feet upon a rock…
He put a new song in my mouth.”

There are chapters in a man’s life that never get written until he’s finally strong enough to tell the truth.
This is one of mine.

I’ve done a lot of growing up in my time — more than most people will ever know. And if I’m transparent, one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to face wasn’t the streets, the music industry, or the threats against my life.
It was the look in my daughter’s eyes when she carried disappointment toward me.

She’s upset with me for the drinking.
She’s upset with me for the weed.
She’s upset with me for the choices I made when she was young — choices she didn’t ask for, choices she didn’t deserve, choices I now wish I could go back and rewrite with steadier hands and a sober mind.

And yes… that hurts.
Not the kind of hurt that fades overnight, but the kind that lingers… the kind only a father understands.

But then I remember Jesus.
I remember who He became in my life — and why I’m still alive to tell this story at all.

Before my daughter was born, I was an alcoholic and a weed head trying to numb the noise of a world that did not love me, did not protect me, and did not care where my soul landed. I walked into rooms I shouldn’t have been in. I trusted people I should have run from. And at one point, a record company in Los Angeles made it clear:
My life was on the line.
The threat was real.
The darkness was closing in.

That was the moment I ran — not in fear, but in surrender.
I ran to Christ.
I ran to the only One who could pull me out before the streets swallowed me whole.

And the truth is… if God hadn’t stepped in when He did, my daughter wouldn’t have a father at all.
There would be no photo of us smiling in that bus seat years ago.
No memories, no restoration, no testimony — just absence.

But God had another plan.
But God redirected my steps.
But God kept breath in my lungs long enough for me to become a different man.

Today, I honor my daughter with this truth:
I wasn’t always who I should have been.
But I refused to stay who I used to be.

She may still be healing.
She may still be processing.
And I give her the space and the grace to feel what she feels.

But I pray that one day she will look back and understand that the very God who saved my life also saved my fatherhood — and gave us a future that hell tried to steal.

I am a redeemed man.
A growing man.
A father still becoming.
And a son of God who refuses to waste the mercy he was given.

This is not an apology.
This is a testimony.
This is the truth of a life preserved by grace, reshaped by love, and restored through the blood of Jesus Christ.

And to my daughter — when you’re ready to read this — just know:
I never stopped loving you.
I never stopped fighting for you.
And I’m still here because God saw a future for us that I couldn’t see for myself.

But God… that’s why I’m still here.